Buddy's Prayer Needs and Diary
Before you read any further, let me just share that Buddy is "living with cancer" and a special "e-friend" to me. He is a true encouragement. There are many, many people struggling with cancer and we need to come against the forces of hell and pray against this agent of Satan's. Let's join with Buddy in prayer!
Also, we stopped adding to his diary a long time ago...and now we're doing it again.
6/14/04

HEY FOLKS

SORRY ABOUT NOT SENDING ANYTHING BUT I JUST CAN NOT SEE ANYTHING THESE DAYS. IS GETTING FRUSTATING

PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS THAT THE DR. WILL BE ABLE TO DO ANOTHER OPERATION THAT WILL BRING MOST OF MY SIGHT BACK.

Love In Christ
Buddy
In God We Trust

I can't believe it's been that long since I've updated Buddy's page. Well, here's the latest!

Hey Folks
  Yes it was an uplifting morning even going to the oncologist for blood work. I had my blood work done this morning , and will see my Dr. next Monday morning to go over all the results from the tests.
  My Oncologist is a good Christian man and it shows  in all he does . I was sitting in the waiting room and watching people to be called. Keeping in mind that all these people are cancer patients , with most having about five years left on their lives, here on earth. Just to see the contentment on the faces of most of these people is a great reward because it shows that they do not fear death, knowing that there is something better after death. We all need to  keep in mind that the best thing we can expect is to be going home to be with our Lord Jesus Christ 
   Hope you all have a great week
 
Love In Christ
 Buddy
 In God We Trust

September 20, 2001

Hey Folks
  Having the problem with my user name and password has continued to give me problems. It did take several days without e-mail to get me back on line. I had no way of letting people know that I will have the new name , so most of you will not want to open my mail not knowing who cshirer might be.
  These past several weeks have been trying as I just stay tired most of the time. It is hard to get started in the morning as I just do not want to get up, either from the pain or all the heavy medication. I just can't sleep away the entire day , but is what I seem to need. It is just hard to explain to people just how a person living with cancer feels as it must hit each of us in a different way. Another big problem I seem to have is trying to gather my thoughts together and try to get it down in writing. I just hope that y'all understand that I do think of you often and that I can do this in a way that you will understand that cancer has a number of ways that it effects our body and thinking process.
Love In Christ
 Buddy

August 22, 2001

Hey folks,
  I had a bad night last night, up several times with my hot flashes and pain. I was to take the car in the first thing this morning for an oil change, but was so tired that I told Lois I did not feel it would be safe for me to drive. She drove so she lost part of her morning.
   I need a prayer request that I will control my feelings.  I needed to do a small job to restring the gas weed trimmer. I was just tired and hurting and had trouble doing it. Lois was trying to be nice and I did come down hard on her, being nasty.  I did apologize to her, but the damage was done. It is bad enough that Lois has to do all that work and then get yelled at  for no reason. The biggest cancer pain comes from tumors in the bone, and I am finding this to hold true.  This is another reason that I do not like writing as I just seem to want to complain  and I am so sorry.
Love In Christ
 Buddy

August 13, 2001
TIME FOR FRIENDSHIP
 
  Hey Folks
   The first time Lois and I read through the bible from the beginning to the end was 48-49 years ago. Over the years we used a number of ways for our daily study. These past 10-12 years we have used  OUR DAILY BREAD
   This morning at 6:30 AM, our regular time for study and prayer, it took us to John 15:12-17
No longer do I call you servants,...
but I have called you friends
 
A friend loves at all times Proverbs 17:17
 
  I have apologized several times for my lack of keeping up with my friends. I have found it hard these past two + years to keep up. Although my cancer is in question and I do have bone pain most of the time I still could and should have kept up with all my friends. I seem only to be able to send out one e-me to y'all,  missing the close personal mailings. It seems that in the past two weeks I have only written to two people.  But this does have it's back side as it is harder for you all to write to this old man. When I opened my mail box this morning I only had one e-m.
 
Our life can be so very busy
That we have no time for friends:
But we must spend more time with Jesus.,
For His friendship never ends.---Fitzhugh
 
TIME IS A FRIEND WHEN YOU USE IT TO STRENGTHEN
YOUR FRIENDSHIP WITH JESUS
Love you all in Christ
   Buddy
 

August 12, 2001

Hey Folks
  We had an interesting story told this morning in Sunday School.
THE MAKING OF AN ARABIAN STALIN
 
A young colt is given to his new owner to be raised. The young boy spends every waking hour working with this young horse. After over a year he takes the horse out into the desert makes a pen and places the horse into it. The hot desert sun working on this horse, which is given no water, begins to show in the sunken eyes, the mouth swelling and frothing from the lack of water. Looking down over the hill is a beautiful lake which the horse can see and know it would give him water. After three days in this condition the owner whistles to the horse and he comes to the gate of the pen where he is left out. The horse will start to run toward the lake to taste the refreshing water when the owner again whistles to the horse. When and if this horse stops and returns to its master he becomes an Arabian Stallion. If he fails to return he is just another horse and can not be called an Arabian Stalin
       NOW HOW ABOUT YOUR LOVE AND DEDICATION TOWARD JESUS?
If you are running wild toward the sins of this world and Jesus calls will you turn around and return and become a son or daughter of God?
  Love Ya'
  Buddy
August 11, 2001
AUGUST 11
 
          Going out and about exploring new places can be one of the joys
          of summer. The Lady of the House and I were doing just that when
          outside a church, which looks down over a tumble of red, painted
          roofs to the Fifth of Forth, we read this invitation to enter the church
          and take part in its worship:
 "You're not too bad to come in,
 You're not too good to stay out."
We think this doesn't leave out anyone.
 
THE SMILE
August 12
 
My friend Chrissie lives on her own, but she
tells me she wakes to a bright smile every morning.
How do
es she manage to do it ?
She let me into the secret.
" I keep a mirror by my bedside, Francis " she told me.
"The moment I wake up I look
into it."
Try it ! The smile is up to you.
 
OK  FOLKS  NOW JUST WHAT WOULD EACH OF
US SEE EVERY MORNING? BE HONEST
Love In Christ
 Buddy
 
What you dislike in another, take care to correct in yourself.
 
When you are laboring for others,
let it be with the same
zeal as if it were laboring for yourself.
 
There was never a person who did anything worth doing
who did not receive more than he gave.
 
Discovery consists of seeing what everybody has seen
and thinking what nobody has thought.
 
It is difficult to say what is impossible, for the dream of
yesterday is the hope of today and the reality of tomorrow.
 
Treat every person with kindness.
Show compassion
to others not because of who they are,
but because of who you are.
 
You have to do your own growing, no matter how tall
your grandfather was   --Irish proverb
 
Opportunity is missed by most people because it is
dressed in overalls and looks like work   -Thomas Edison
 
The best portion of a good man's life is his little, nameless 
unremembered acts of kindness and love --William Wordsworth
 
Though we travel the world to find the beautiful,
we must
carry it within us or we will not find it.     -Ralph W Emerson
 
Hey Sharon
  You are just to nice to this old man.
   I go back to the first or second time we ever talked (about three years ago ). I told you that I was an old man married 47 years.  You asked, "What was the reason for so many years? Were they all happy with no problems ?" 
   I said, "No we have had our ups and downs with some problems."
   You said, "If you would have said anything different or we never had problems I  would not have believed you, as we all have some problems."
   Your wisdom and honesty at that time was the first thing that drew me closer to your ministry. You gave a lot of credit to Roger at that time, for  helping out as often as he did to free you up to study at 3 AM and get your material out by 6-7 AM
   Thank you again for your support
  Love Ya'
  Buddy
August 9, 2001
Hey Folks
   Well we made a fast trip to Fl. and made it back safe. To drive the 11hrs on Tuesday and spend the evening with my 98 year old mother was worth the trip. We took mom out for lunch on Wednesday and had a great visit with her. All in all it was a good trip.It was good to see my niece who is looking out for all my mothers needs. It is good knowing mom has her there to watch out for her
   I am tired a and need to get to bed early. I am hoping that I might get a chance to talk to my Dr tomorrow. It will be a long time until next week to see just where my PSA count was on the 30th and my tests came out last week
Love In Christ
 Buddy
August 8, 2001
From our precious Buddy:
Hey Folks
  Just another short update. On Tuesday after my bladder procedure I did not have a chance to talk to my doctor, but he did tell Lois that there was a dark spot that he was unable to get to. The first thing this morning he had me go in for an ultrasound on my kidney. I was able to see the monitor clearly and there was a dark spot that the young lady kept going back to. At this time I have no way of knowing if it is a tumor or scare tissue or just what. It will be the end of next week before I get a chance to see just what is going on. This spot is on the left lobe,and if they need to remove that one it would be no big loss.
   Once that I get a clear answer I will be sure to let you know .I feel good about this with no fear.
Love In Christ
 
August 6, 2001
A CANDLE LOSES
NOTHING OF ITS
LIGHT BY LIGHTING
OTHERS
          COULD THIS HAVE ANY BEARING ON OUR PERSONAL LIVES ??
 
   This was sent to me several years ago, by a beautiful young lady. This past year I haven't heard much from her, and I do miss her deep messages.
Love In Christ
 Buddy
August 2, 2001
Hey Folks
  Just another short update. On Tuesday after my bladder procedure I did not have a chance to talk to my doctor, but he did tell Lois that there was a dark spot that he was unable to get to. The first thing this morning he had me go in for an ultrasound on my kidney. I was able to see the monitor clearly and there was a dark spot that the young lady kept going back to. At this time I have no way of knowing if it is a tumor or scare tissue or just what. It will be the end of next week before I get a chance to see just what is going on. This spot is on the left lobe,and if they need to remove that one it would be no big loss.
   Once that I get a clear answer I will be sure to let you know .I feel good about this with no fear.
Love In Christ
 Buddy
August 1, 2001
Hey Folks
  We had our monthly meeting this past Monday of our support group. We had about 50 present. It was reported that in the past two months we had lost four members to their cancer, and the next day we lost another precious young lady
   We attended the funeral this morning of a young man who had been suffering the same cancer as mine for five years. Larry went through a number of new drugs that failed to work on his cancer
   Tomorrow afternoon we will attend the service of Ruth who was a native of New Orleans La. A traditional New Orleans Jazz Funeral procession to our Memorial Gardens about a block away will follow the service, with a horse drawn carriage and brass band. It is the family's request that family and friends bring their parasols and umbrellas and join in the processional as they march to the cemetery to the music,"When the Saints Go Marching in." This will be different for Charlotte , but Ruth was a strong willed person , who was able to get more done that the average person.
   Please keep our Cancer Support Group in your prayers, as we do have several others in poor health
Love In Christ
 Buddy
July 31, 2001
Hey folks a good Praise Report
   I was in the hospital at 6:45 am this morning. Put to sleep and my Urologist went back into the bladder. There are no new tumors at this time. I do need to arrange for an ultrasound but have been unable to catch the lady who makes these apts
    I am tired, but feeling great.
Love In Christ
 Buddy
July 27, 2001
Hey Folks
   The other day I sent out my e-mail on my study of the Prostate Cancer Research Institute.   This had some startling information
1  Tumor Regression   20% of patients
 2 Advanced Disease     I have known for the past three years that I was stage 4
 3 Ketoconazole   my new drug   reduced cortisol production in 25% of patients
 4 Recent report  11 of 20 patients met their criteria for response   median duration was
         8.5 months     median overall survival was 19 months/
 
                                                      now what do I THINK ???
   I PRAISE THE LORD THAT OUR LIVES ARE NOT DETERMINED OR CONTROLLED BY STATISTICS,  BUT BY THE GRACE AND LOVE OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST BECAUSE OF THIS I HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY OR
FEAR  YES WHAT A GREAT GOD WE HAVE
 
   Love in Christ
   Buddy
July 21, 2001
Hey Folks
   I have talked at length at times as to what a great caregiver Lois has been these past three years
  This should not be any surprise to me, as I can remember back 50 years after we were first married. WHY even back then Lois treated me like a Greek God. It was not uncommon for her to serve me burnt offerings at least once a week.  LOL 
 
Love In Christ
 Buddy
July 21, 2001
Can I just try to clear up what seems to be a misunderstanding.  First off I want to say that I am doing great.
CANCER
Prostate.  
This first turned up 30 years ago in Pittsburgh. I was 44 years old at the time the doctor found the tumor in my Prostate. This was removed and found to have cancer cells in about a third of the part removed.  This stayed quiet for the next 27 years (Praise the Lord ). Three years ago they found that it had turned aggressive moving out of the prostate into the bones in both hips and the right shoulder. I was on the female hormone up until two months ago, when it stopped doing what it was meant to do. I will start on Ketoconazole the first part of next week which should stop the flow of my male hormone which causes the growth of cancer cells. Over the last 2 1/2 years there have been about five new tumors pop up in different locations of my body..
 
Bladder  
Three years ago they found a large tumor in my bladder, which was removed at that time. The cancer in this tumor had not spread to the walls of the bladder (Praise the Lord ) This is the kind of tumor which WILL return so my Urologist has gone back into the bladder every six months to have a look around. My oncologist must have seen something on my bone scan two weeks ago, as he wanted my doctor to go back in and see what it looks like.  NOW there is no connection between the two cancers - not kin to each other. I do not know how he knew this so fast, but I will take his word for it.
Now this is what they will do on the 31st. Put me to sleep (great ) and go into the bladder and do whatever is needed. They will be able to correct several  minor problems (so they say ) with the prostate at this time. I have no concern over any of this procedure, and have all the confidence that all will turn out great as I do have the Lord looking out for me.
Love In Christ
July 20, 2001
Well my DR apt went well this morning.  I got my chemo shot, and then had my meeting with my urologist.  He scheduled for me to be admitted to the hospital at 7AM on July 31st for the Cystascapy with x -rays. The possibility exists that he might need to Resection Bladder Tumor. It has been three years since he removed the large cancerous tumor, and they will return by this time.
  Other than this news I am doing just great
   Love in Christ
   Buddy

July 17, 2001

Hey Folks
   I am back in that old rut, not being able to want to do anything but sleep. I got up at 7AM and Lois has already had the dog out for an hour walk  and the table set for breakfast.  WE had our Bible study and prayer time (we have several in our cancer support needing strong prayer at this time ) and then had breakfast. I came in checked my early mail and then laid down and slept for two hrs. Lois is in the frt bedroom working and I just said that we should go out for Chinese food for lunch. She ( Lois ) can not understand how I can sleep the morning away and then be hungry enough to go out for lunch. BUT folks I just do not have enough energy to even want to set down and type this short message.
   I will be glad when I can get started on my new medication. With nothing to block the flow of the male hormone which feeds the cancer, and did cause the two new tumors to pop up I might be tired like this.  Oh well I praise the Lord the the tumors are not bad enough to need chemo or more radiation treatment. We always have something that we can give praise about
   Love in Christ
    Buddy
July 11, 2001
Hey Folks
  Yes I had my meeting with my oncologist this morning. For the most part all is better than I expected. The psa blood count is up slightly over 5 which they use as a bench mark. The bone scan did show two new spots but the old ones have not enlarged to the extent that he feels radiation is necessary.
   As he knows that my old hormone medication was not working he is going to start me on another new medication. I have sent my order in but it will be about ten days before I start on it. I will have to take another medication to help avoid any of the serious side effect from the first one.
    I do notice mild pain in several areas in the bone and if this should get serious he will order some radiation. To me the pain seemed strong but since I did not cry over it he must feel it is not serious.I did tell him that the pain in the neck and back of the head gets me up several times a night but either he did not hear me or felt I did not say it with conviction.Oh well time will tell. I know that I have a strong or wild imagination and I must have left it run in frt. of me. LOL
   Now I want to thank you all for your prayers as we all know that is what has kept everything in check.  I do have a lot to give praise about as He has looked out over me for close to thirty years.
Love In Christ
 Buddy
June 10, 2001
Hey Sharon
  As I prepare myself for my visit tomorrow morning with my oncologist,your message this morning has a strong message to me.
  I know from a medical standpoint only there is no cure for my cancer. But with all the promises we have from God I have no fear about my meeting. I know that there is a miracle waiting for the outcome in this meeting, It will be interesting to see just what God has in store for me, or for Lois or our children. I know that He will supply all my needs but not all my wants.
   Thank you for all your faithfulness
Love In Christ
 
Tuesday
July 10, 2001

FAITH IS…

What is faith? It is the confident assurance that what we hope for is going to happen. It is the evidence of things we cannot yet see…So, you see, it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that there is a God and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him. Hebrews 11:1, 6

God wants all of our confidence to be placed in Him! He wants us to have the confident assurance that whatever we ask for we will receive. Now, I don't think that means that if I ask Him for the Taj Mahal He will give it to me. I honestly don't think that's in His plans for me. However, in my heart I know what His plans are for me and I know what to ask for. Now that makes sense!

God wants me to have whatever is necessary to complete the work He has given me to do. In order for that to be done I need daily bread and other basic essentials. Granted, God knows what we stand in need of and all He has to do is send blessings our way. However, He also hungers to have a relationship with us. So, everything is build around the process of seeking Him, asking Him for our needs, and thanking Him when He sends us our supplies!

For years I have felt that God wanted us to come to the end of our rope. He wanted us to be hanging on by a thread of hope and having enough faith in Him to provide a place to fall. He did.

Since quitting my job in 1998 and starting this ministry I can't tell you how many times Roger and I have been at the point of no return. We have been at the end of our rope with our children and our finances. In both cases we sought godly counsel (and Oprah) and we borrowed money. Well, when we had sought all the godly counsel we could and there was no place else to turn for money - God came through.

Our children are more settled now than ever before. We enjoy their visits with us and we have faith to believe that one day they will hunger and thirst for His Presence. He also supplied our needs through the inheritance I received recently. Everything happened on His time schedule when we had no where else to turn.

I don't know what you are going through, but I know the God who goes with you. He wants you to trust Him; not man and not the church! We are to look to Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith!

Father, we trust You to bring about Your purpose in our lives. We trust You to be our Provider and our Guide! We bring our needs and our wants before You and trust that You will give us all that we need and want according to Your good pleasure! You truly deserve our highest praise!

In His Hope,
Sharon

 Buddy
June 9, 2001
Hey Folks
  First I want to thank you all for keeping our granddaughter in your prayers. Maggie is 21 and will be leaving for her trip to Africa tomorrow. This trip will be for six months,in western Africa. She will spend the first three months working in a clinic in a city. The next three months will be in a village with no electricity or running water. We just finished talking to her and she is excited about this trip and the work she will be doing. Her entire time will be helping in these clinic's
   We will appreciate if you can continue to hold her up in your prayers.
Love In Christ
 Buddy
June 7, 2001
Hey Folks
  It will be thirty three days before I see my Oncologist about the outcome of all my tests, and just where he wants to go from here. Will this be a long time ? In some ways it could be , but I have a lot of protection. We have a large number of promises from God at times like this. I claim this promise at this time
      The beloved of the Lord shall dwell in safety by him;and the Lord shall cover him
      all the day long , and he shall dwell between his shoulders
                                                                         Deuteronomy 33:12
June 6
Pray for Buddy, whose medication costs in his cancer treatments are skyrocketing.
May 7, 2001
Hey Folks
                Can I request special prayer for our Granddaughter Maggie
Fitzroy? Some of you will remember that she spent six weeks in China last
summer. 
Now at the age of 21 Maggie is making her final plans to leave for Ghana on 
June 11, and return on November 22nd. Ghana is located in western Africa 
about 50 miles north of the equator. She will be working with FAME an
organization that concentrates on helping the people of underdeveloped
nations through medical evangelism.
Maggie will be working in the city of Tema for three months, and the other
three months in a rural village. These villages are very remote with no
running water or electricity. She will be working in a clinic the entire time
there.
The preparations for this trip is great and she will need much prayer.
Please pray that she will be ready to leave by June and that her trip will be
a success.
 Thank you much
  Love on Christ
 Buddy

Love In Christ
 Buddy
 
April 22, 2001
Do not worry about tomorow....... 
      Sufficient for the day is its own trouble. 
     --Matthew 6:34
 Am I a worrywart?  YES  But not about my Cancer. Although from a medical standpoint only, their is no cure for my cancer. The medication that I am on is not a cure for the cancer, but I have no worry as I am a winner regardless of what direction it takes. BUT last evening our youngest grandaughter age 18 was on her way to Fl with her high school and had a full hr. layover in Charlotte. We wanted to be there at 9:30pm to meet her at the gate. NOW it is a half hr. drive from our
house to the airport, and Lois could not understand why i wanted to leave at 8:30. I worried that their might have been a traffic backup and we needed the extra half. hr.
 Well we got to the airport at 9pm and pulled into the parking lot BUT IT WAS not the one we wanted. Being dark and not knowing where we were i started to worry that we would not get back out and find our way into the proper lot. Worry YES WHY ???
 O K  we found a shuttle bus driver, who directed us to the exit and how to get where we needed to be. Yes we found a great parking spot and got to our gate by 9:15. Her gate was just accross the isle from where they had their connecting flight, so we had a good 45 Min visit. Praise the Lord  Did I need to worry NO  NO Lois got off for her drive to Pittsburgh at 6:30am. This should get het to our Son's house by 3:30. Lois is a great driver so should have no trouble. And thank you all for your Prayers, for a safe trip.
Love In Christ
Buddy
April 20, 2001

Hey Folks
  Can you keep me in your prayers for this morning. I go in at 9am for my shot of Goserelin ($1,800 ) to control the cancer. I need to talk with my Uroligest as i did not go over the outcome of my bladder surgery.
  Now the other prayer is that I will be out of the DR office in time for Lois and me to get to the retirement home for our Friday service with about 10 ladies and one man. We(Lois & I ) hold a Bible study and prayer time every Friday morning.
 
Love In Christ
 Buddy

Buddy also asked for prayer for Lois to have a safe drive to their grandchildren's home.

April 5, 2001
Hey Folks
  I seem to be coming down with a cold. NOW lets have a vote to see where most of you think it is going.
   Clue: It will always settle in your weakest part.
    And I do not need a cold, as I go in for my $1,800 chemo shot in two weeks
 
   Love in Christ
   Buddy
January 23, 2001
Hey Folks
 Just a short Praise Report.  The operation went well. It was all over in forty-five minutes. I spent the next two hrs. in the recovery room, and was back home at two PM
  Everything looked great. No new tumors and no sign of new cancer. Yes, what a great God we have
  I will have some minor discomfort for several days but nothing serious.
 Love in Christ
  Buddy
January 5, 2000
Hey Folks
 Just a short update, I am doing great but had my regular Apt. this morning with my urologist. I just seem to have trouble getting answers from him, because he pushes us through so fast. His only concern was my bladder. They removed a large tumor a little over two years ago which turned out to be malignant, and he wants to recheck this.  I will go into one day surgery on Jan 23rd at which time he will do a Cystascapy / x-rays and possible resection of bladder tumor.
  I have no apprehension about this as we do have a great God looking out for us at all times.
  Love in Christ
   Buddy
 
December 29, 2000

Hey folks,
I haven't spent a lot of time online this past year so I felt that I better send out just a little information. All in All I have had a great year. The pain is being controlled with medication, so I am doing great. One of the other men in our support group picked me up yesterday afternoon and we visited one of our members who is under Hospice care at this time. The three of us started out with the same condition so we have a lot to talk about. The three of us are in total agreement on the fact that we are winners regardless in what direction out condition leads us
Last Sunday night we had our Christmas Eve program at Church. It was just a beautiful evening taking us from the birth of our precious Jesus to the Resurrection. We had about 6,000 in attendance, and a candlelight service. A very touching service closing with our 100 member choir singing the Hallelujah Chorus. We will have a New Year's Eve Communion Service at 11:00--Midnight on Sunday.
The highlight this week came in a Christmas card. I am going against Lois' thoughts and inclosing the message.

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Shirer:
You may not remember me but I dated Vanetta in 1987. My name is Alex. In our Faith team meeting at Church we were encouraged to contact and thank the people who brought us to Christ. It was through your witness and Vanetta's testimony that I first learned that Christ died for my sins. I was a wild child at the time, but through that contact with Christ I became what I
am today. Happily married, father of three children a member of a sports evangelism mission team and a seminary student. I'm studying to be a youth Pastor, so I just wanted to let you know
what a change you brought about and to say thanks. Merry Christmas may the Lord bless your family.
Both of this young man's parents are full professors at The University of North Carolina Charlotte (UNCC).
We never know just what effect our actions will make on a person, so it is important that we keep our mind and thoughts on our Precious Jesus. This message was so important coming at this time of the year, and my age (73). I do have a lot to give praises about: twenty-seven years living with cancer under the control of our great God. Now another two years after the cancer got aggressive and spread to my bones. I am in great hands and have no fear about the outcome of my condition. I am confident that I can have another fifteen years with the great God we have who is in control of all things.
Happy New Years to all
Love Ya 'In Christ
Buddy

December 3, 2000
Hey Folks
   We are sitting here in the sunny south looking for a bad snow storm to hit tonight. We are expected to get 4-6 inches here in Charlotte. But remember that 1/4 inch will shut down the city. Vanetta in Raleigh, NC could get 15-20 inches by the time it is over. We ordinarily leave home at 7:30 AM for Church, so do not know at this time if the early service will be canceled.
  Two months ago we signed up for a trip from our Church for a three day trip to Myrtle Beach, SC. We will leave the Church at 8:30AM on Friday morning. At 6:30PM we take in the Carolina Opry Christmas Show. Saturday we will have time to shop and then view the 12 days of Christmas light display. At 7:30PM we arrive at the Palace Theater for the Radio City Rockettes Christmas Spectacular. Sunday we have Breakfast at 7:30AM and at 9AM will have our Sunday morning service. We should have about 70-75 in our group.  We will arrive back in Charlotte about 5 PM.
   Now some of you know that my pain has been a problem these past two weeks, but I do have a new Rx for stronger pain medication, and I hope this will help. My next DR apt is on DEC. 13 at which time I will get the results from all my X-rays and the bone scan done this past Tuesday. BUT I AM DOING GREAT

 
 November 30, 2000
Hey Sharon
   Please add my name in your prayer request.  My pain has been getting stronger this past week.  I had my bone scan, along with x-rays done on Tuesday morning, which should show if there is any change in my cancer.
  Thank you for your continued support. W do have a great God
   Love Ya'
   Buddy
November 15, 2000
Hey Folks
   First off I want to make it clear that I am doing great
   Two years ago when we found that my cancer had turned aggressive it had spread into both hips and my right shoulder. Since that time it has popped up in several others locations. The past several weeks my right shoulder has been bothering me. with burning sensation and pain. My next apt. with my oncologist was for Jan., but Lois and Kay. have been nagging me to call for an apt as soon as possible. Knowing how aggressive women can get I phoned today and will see my oncologist on the 20th. (Now what will you do Kay) I would think that he will order another MRI to see how things look at this time.
   I will ask if you all can keep me in your prayers that there is no change in the condition of this tumor.
   Love in Christ
   Buddy
October 16, 2000
 Hey Folks
Can I bring you up to date on my condition. These past several weeks I have been getting more tired, and unable to do much to help Lois. I will go to my Urologist on Friday the 20th for my $1625.00 shot of Zoladex. This is a form of chemo that I get every three months. In the past it seems to help bring back some of my strength, although it is my Casodex the female hormone that drains our strength. The casodex is also responsible for the bone loss and the muscle loss.  But I am doing great I do not want to sound like a complainer.
  As Lois has been doing the work for both of us I felt that she needs a time to get away and rest. We are signed up with Christian Tours for a five day motor coach tour of The Golden Isles of Georgia. We spend the first three nights at Jekyll Island the playground of millionaires Day four we go to Okeenokee Swamp, and a boat tour deep into the swamp and the ancient Indian waterways.  After the boat ride we head to Savannah and dinner at one of there best restaurants, The River House. Day five we tour Savannah in a trolley tour after Breakfast at Mrs. Wilkes Boarding House.  We will return home late in the afternoon
  Now please keep me in your prayers that my back will stand up under all this.
  And yes folks I am doing great only a little tired.
   Love Ya All
   Buddy

UPDATE - October 29, 2000
If this is your first visit to this page. Do yourself a favor and read all of this, but today we have a special praise report from Buddy!
Hey Folks
   I have a great Praise Report.  I advised you when I first went on the Hormone medication about all the side effects the drug had. The big one was about the extensive clinical test they had done on the drug. It was given on an experiment to 800 men with aggressive prostate cancer, like mine.  By the end of the two year test 52% of the men had died. I claimed the 48% for myself.  I am now at the end of my two year's, and made the 48%. Praise the Lord What a great God we have.
    Love You All
    Buddy
Day Two October 8, 2000
   Can I expand on what I had to say yesterday on Prayer?
11 Corinthians 1:3-4 " Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of ALL comfort: Who comforted us in all our tribulations, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God."
1Chronicles 4:10 "Oh that You would bless me and enlarge my territory."
  I have been pondering over the fact that I might not be spending all the time I should Or need to in prayer. Our first priority each day is to have our Bible study and prayer time. Our Church prayer list every week has close to 50 in need of prayer. As I am involved in the Cancer Ministry of Calvary Church I tend to place most of my time with the 20+ with cancer. We have two at this time in the final days of this terrible decease, so the remaining 15 in our support group are prayed for just as members of this group. I do need to start spending more time in prayer. Yes, God knows the needs of each of us, even before it is mentioned.
 One thing that bothers me is that all the prayer list's that we see fail to include the caregivers for prayer. Knowing what Lois is going through at this time, and what I saw as a volunteer with Hospice for five years they are a forgotten group. I had several women while with Hospice come up to me and say I need to get away from him, as he is driving me crazy. Yes, we need to pray for them.
Job 23:12 "I have not departed from the command of His lips: I have trusted the words of His mouth more than my necessary food."
No I departed from His command and have not been as faithful in my prayer life as I should.
    Love in Christ
    Buddy

October 7, 2000
Hey Folks
We just finished listening to a tape by DR Bruce H. Wilkinson and walk through the Bible, "
A PRAYER TO IGNITE YOUR LIFE" 1Chronicles 4:10
  Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, "Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me, and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain." And God granted his request
  How often do we pray for ourselves? Do we want out territory enlarged? Are we doing everything for our Lord that we can, or should we ask for more authority? My first thought on this went out to Dixie, who has enlarged her territory to reach out to all parts of the world. I tend to stick to my own small prayer list. Oh yes I will pick out one from the PWI list, but mostly just bunch them all together, as a group.
We have at least 20 members at our Church with cancer and we do like to keep them all on our list I also think about Sharon who has enlarged her territory in a number of ways. I am blessed in ways that I cannot get into words through the Woes To Wows Ministries.
   Do we ask God to let His hand be with us, and keep us from harm.  Do we know that the evil one will be after everything we are doing for the Lord, and we do need God to keep his hand on us? If we pray this prayer for ourselves our entire life will change. We will find ourselves doing things for God that we had no idea that we could handle. 

   It would be great if we all could hear this tape.

 
 
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