Prayers by D. White
Cup Half Full: Molested as a Minor
73. Organizing friendships
What isn't working has to be organized. If
there is a friend who is showing that I am the lowest on the totem pole of
priorities more than a couple of times, then maybe it is time to adjust
how I feel, and how I allow myself to be sucked into being the lowest on
the totem pole of priorities. Maybe spending less time with this friend,
and showing this friend how it feels is the way to go. But then the game,
or dance of making appointments to have an hour or two together becomes
once every four months, instead of once every two months means I have to
take stock. Why am I investing in a friendship that doesn't seem to be
working? Why am I letting myself be in a relationship that is so distant
in caring? There are a lot of people out there, and I am capable of being
friends with more people. Some of those people may like what I like. God,
some of my ideas of what I deserve, and how close I want to be with people
are slow to be important. Show me to ask myself what would be better, to
work on relationships, or figure out that they are ending.
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