Prayers by D. White

Cup Half Full: Molested as a Minor

98. Blame

For all the blame I can muster, what is behind it? What is behind the blame game of everyone else being to blame for everything, and I am a victim? What is the difference of a survivor and a victim? Could it be that the survivor sees all that the other actors played, but knows that as a survivor that stuff is not to do with the survivor, but with the abuser? Sure, their junk did this and was really bad, but that is not me, that is the abuser's baggage. If abuse changes me, it is my choice to do what I choose with what happened. I can hurt myself, or I can open myself up to helping myself. I can do things that feel much better for myself than was done to me. I can be the master of my own domain. The blame is not to hurt, but to figure out what is needed for my growth, and my peace.

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